Sexual gratification rules. Sex — any type, any time, with anyone — is the ultimate freedom. Sex rules the marketplace, classroom, court of law, and military. Sex is the one “right” above all others. Why? Because Kinsey said so. “Children,” said Kinsey, “are sexual from birth.” In other words, according to Kinsey and his followers, we are animal-like beings captive to sexual desires, urges, and feelings.
Progressive people everywhere already knew they were “animal-like.” Why? Because Darwin said so. Anyone feeling inhibited by a Creator God now had “license” to do as they pleased. Piggy-backing (how animal-like!) on the theory of Darwin, Kinsey plunged into “scientific” study with the goal of breaking down all sexual inhibitions Kinsey’s “scientific” study has been exposed as fraudulent and criminal. (You can discover why by reading “Kinsey: Crimes and Consequences” or visiting Dr. Judith Reisman.) Nevertheless, a psychologically twisted and sexually deviant Kinsey was granted “license” to move a culture away from guarding innocence and protecting boundaries of modesty to educate in all manner of sex. The animal circus went on the road.
Progressive and enlightened Christians filed God’s Word on sexual purity under “religious myths” and joined the animal circus. Willingly, or unwillingly, they became “animal trainers.” If you really cared about a child, parents and educators were told, you would help a young, “evolving” conscience become “comfortable” with sexual desires, urges, and feelings. At least four generations have been educated in all manner of sexual behavior, but left clueless about what it means to be male or female.
We’ve been too long at the animal circus. The evidence explains why.
- Young women suffer a variety of sexually transmitted diseases, sterility, and depression following casual sexual encounters. (Visit Dr. Miriam Grossman or read her book, “Unprotected.”)
- Young men and women are “brain damaged” and addicted to sex. (Visit Dr. Joe McIlhaney or read his book, “Hooked.”)
- Husbands and wives, each having partnered intimately with others prior to marriage, are having difficulty bonding — relating, communicating, and working as a team for the sake of their children.
- High school and college-aged girls admit they feel “more free” and sexually unbounded, but also admit to being “less happy” and “content.”
- Girls raised in Christian homes demand the “right” to “shower together” at camps and retreats; some go further by experimenting with bi-sexual and lesbian lifestyles. (These examples from personal testimonies.)
We’ve been too long at the animal circus. Darwin, Kinsey, Margaret Sanger (Planned Parenthood), and others who’ve wanted to re-wire the minds of our children have trained long enough. Their education has mentored boys and girls to be sexual, not relational; all about me, rarely about others; empty, not filled; hopeless, not hopeful.
The church — the Body of Christ — stands guilty. To be more attractive to the world, we adapted the ways of circus trainers. As long as Jesus was part of sex education, our sons and daughters would be all right — or so we thought. But, Jesus does not wrap Himself around worldly ideas. (See post of October 1, 2010 in the ezerwoman archives.)
Is there hope? Yes. Away from the animal circus.
God didn’t create us to be “sexual beings.” That is not our identity. He created us to be human beings who reflect His glory by living life as male or female. According to His design, male and female are equal, but different. Our “plumbing” is different. The way we think, love, and communicate is different. God’s Word explains the meaning and purpose of the two genders/sexes. His Word explains why we need each other and how to treat each other. Then, when the time is right, God “fits” a man and a woman together in the faithfulness of marriage. Through the act of procreational sex, God brings new life into the world.
We are not animal-like beings captive to sexual desires, feelings, and perceived “needs.” We are, by creation, persons of great worth with minds, hearts, and souls able to control emotions and feelings.
Away from the animal circus, we are better able to see children as God sees them. Sons and daughters… on their way to a future of hope as men and women. Husbands and wives. Fathers and mothers. Grandparents.


Don’t Mingle, “Dig In”
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Andree Seu, writing in WORLD (11-6-10), paraphrases comments made to her by Virginia Rep. Frank Wolf. With both hands about shoulder-level, roughly 12-inches apart, Rep Wolf explained to Seu that we have “the church” here and “the other world” here. He posited that this is always a constant distance of separation. Seu writes,
“Where the thing gets scary, explained Wolf, is that as the world moves toward greater immorality, the church continues to keep the same distance from it. That is to say, the church is sliding into debauchery along with the world, just at a slower rate. What is important to note is that this slippage from God is not so easily detected because the gap between church and world remains the same, and so we seem, to ourselves, to be doing OK.”
In the first session of my Titus 2 Retreat, “We Are Vulnerable,” I ask the group to give examples of “silly myths” that lead to “social experiments.” Believing “silly myths” (i.e. abortion is a woman’s right or two women who love each other should be able to marry) inevitably leads to social experimentation. Such experimentation is actually tampering with God’s design. This is never good for a people who want to imagine beyond themselves to new generations. God’s design brings order and new life. Experimenting with His design brings chaos and death.
We are vulnerable, I explain during a Titus 2 Retreat, when we profess Jesus Christ as our Lord but wrap Him around silly myths and social experiments. There is a saying: “We become like the company we keep.” We become like the world — even though we think we’re keeping a distance — when we begin to mingle (just a little here or a little there). When we let worldly ideas of spirituality, worship, the roles of men and women, marriage, family, and children weave into Christianity, we’re in trouble. Truth does not embrace or wrap around worldly ideas. Truth and the world are opposites. A lesson from history gives some clarity.
In the Old Testament book of Ezra, we learn that the king of Persia was going to allow the Jewish people to return to Jerusalem. They had been exiles and captives for a long time. It’s important to note that only a small number of Jewish exiles wanted to return to their homeland. Most were unwilling to give up their Babylonian property or lifestyle to go back to their old ways. So, because there was such a small group of workers, the rebuilding of Jerusalem became more difficult. There were people in the area who offered their help. Those people didn’t believe in God and held to a blend of mixed religious beliefs. It goes without saying that they had motives of their own. The Jewish people refused the offer of help with their building project. Why? 1) The task was given exclusively to God’s people; 2) accepting help from non-believers would obligate God’s people to pagan ways; and 3) the potential for corruption in worship was too great if God’s people became aligned with non-believers. (Ezra 4:3)
A Christian, wanting to be progressive, might think: If I embrace the best parts of a worldly idea, I will be able to move forward the Gospel of Jesus Christ in a modern way. But, too often, moral-influence flows the opposite direction. God knows that. Therefore, He says: Don’t mingle; dig in. Dig in to the One Who is not of this world (John 18:36). Jesus says, “I am the Light.” The world is dark (John 1:4-5). “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me” (John 14:6). The world is deceptive and leads to death (John 10:10). “My peace I give you.” The world offers no such peace. (John 14:27) For this reason, St. Paul was inspired to write in Romans 12:2:
Don’t mingle. Dig in.
To mingle with the world is to walk on shifting sand. For awhile, public opinion might lean one way; then, depending upon anything from the economy to a national crisis, public opinion can suddenly shift the opposite direction. Andree Seu explains that there is “a little thing called the ‘Overton Window.’ It is the term for an insight by a Joseph P. Overton that at any given point in the stream of a population’s public life there is a ‘window’ that contains or frames a range of opinion that is currently acceptable. Outside that window lie the ideas considered wacko. The intriguing thing is that what is ‘acceptable’ and what is ‘wacko’ can (and does) shift. The window itself moves — and clever and diabolical forces have an interest in moving it.”
What was “radical” yesterday is “acceptable” today. The unthinkable, notes Andree Seu, can go from “popular” to “policy.” Remember. Ideas like abortion, homosexual “marriage,” and euthanasia used to lurk in the shadows of the American landscape. Not anymore.
I’m an ezer woman who lives in a culture where “evil” is called “good.” For this reason, I’m compelled to dig heels into the foundation of God’s Word but, at the same time, push forward with weapons of truth. As ideas and behaviors spiral downward, the one who follows Jesus is called to be intentionally polite. Kind. Pure. This will irritate some and be seen as naive by others. But, for a neighbor caught momentarily in darkness, the light may shine more brightly. The Word of Truth, kindly spoken, pulls from shifting sand to solid ground.
There is a model for those who no longer want to mingle but, instead, dig in. Curious? I invite you to explore Titus 2 for Life.
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