What do the Divine Service and sex education have in common? Nothing.
The Divine Service, with its ordered liturgy and reverence, is not common. It is not casual. It is not “do it myself;” rather, it is the Holy God “doing” for me.
Filled by God with His Word and Sacrament, my behavior as a woman of God should not be common. My choices and behavior should put me at odds with the theories and trends of the world.
What I teach and how I teach it should not be common. I should, with no apologies, instruct using God’s Word and mentor winsomely in the way of Jesus. I should resist adapting worldly theories, fooling myself with the nonsense that I can sort “good” from “bad, and attempting to wrap the Word of God around the common.
Sex education is common. It is worldly. Tragically, especially for boys and girls, it is accepted by the secular world and many in the church. Instruction in purity is not common. It calls me and the people I mentor to be different. Set apart. That’s because, as God’s possession and treasures in Christ Jesus, we are different. What we do flows from our identity as men and women called for holy purpose.
Consider me strange, but I think that Biblical instruction in purity is very much like the Divine Service. Both are not common. Both seem strange. Antiquated. “Too righteous.” Both are criticized for being difficult. Perhaps even “unrealistic.” But, that’s how it is with things that are not common. Holy things. Things of God grow out of different soil.
The Divine Service and instruction in purity both speak to our true identity in Christ. In Him, we are new creations called to live differently. Even as new creations we are still sinful males and females who, on this earth, will always be tempted to determine our own worship practice and our own sexual behavior. Therefore, we are in desperate need of the God who is separated from the common.
Divinely served by God through my pastor on Sunday morning, I am equipped to live different from a secular world the rest of the week. Failing often during the week, I return again on Sunday to be Divinely served and strengthened.
Instructed in the purity of Biblical manhood and womanhood, boys and girls are equipped to live different from the world and better resist the sinful nature that will surely tempt them throughout all their earthly life. Failing often, they can return to a life of purity because being different – not common – means being a treasure of Jesus Christ. His forgiveness for every treasured soul is new every morning.
One of your best, Linda! I hope these blogs are being shared and read around the country. You ability to connect the “sexy or holy” issue to so many areas and stages of our lives shows how our identity is a thread connecting life issues. Thank you for speaking out with God’s Word as your guide!