“Ohhhh… he made me feel so good. One thing led to another. I couldn’t control myself. It happened…
(Pregnant pause)
… now, I must take control of my body by having an abortion.”
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Relationships, tagged abortion, control, feminism, logic, rights, woman on April 16, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Citizenship, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Relationships, tagged court decision, Creator of marriage, family, gay marriage, God's Word, homosexual marriage, Iowa Supreme Court, judges, marriage, ousted Iowa judges, re-defining marriage, right to marry, U.S. Constitution on April 15, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Three Iowa Supreme Court justices were ousted last November because the court re-defined marriage and allowed homosexuals the right to marry each other. Months later, opinions are divided. Some maintain that the supremes were acting exactly as they should: safeguarding the rights of an unpopular group from a discriminatory act.
Judge Richard Posner would dispute that. Posner, a widely respected judge on the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Seventh Circuit said in a public interview, “Nothing in the Constitution or its history suggests a constitutional right to homosexual marriage. If there is such a right, it will have to be manufactured by the justices out of whole cloth. The exercise of so freewheeling a judicial discretion in the face of adamantly opposed public opinion would be seriously undemocratic. It would be a matter of us judges, us enlightened ones, forcing our sophisticated views on a deeply unwilling population.”
Put simply, when the law defines marriage as between one man and one woman, it does not prohibit any person practicing a homosexual lifestyle from marrying. They would just have to marry in the same way that everyone else in society has to marry — namely, they would have to marry someone of the opposite sex. This right is extended equally to all unmarried adults in the society.
When a person practicing a homosexual lifestyle claims they want to marry another person of the same sex, he or she is claiming a new right that had not previously been available to anyone in this society. Such a right has been denied to everyone in the society prior to this time, so it is not discriminating against them to say that this kind of right is denied to them.
Let’s use another example. A man wanting to marry his sister may claim he has the right that everyone else has: the right to marry. But that’s an invalid argument. The law prohibits such marriage. When the law denies this man the right to marry his sister, it isn’t denying him anything that it doesn’t also deny everybody else as well. In truth, this man is really claiming that he has the right to redefine marriage according to his own desires and preferences. And he’s not just claiming a private right, but a right to redefine the institution of marriage for the whole of society.
There is so much more to be said, but let me offer one more thought. Laws in any society have a teaching function. The kinds of relationships that are approved by the law are more likely to be approved of and followed by the society as a whole. People will reason, “This is according to the law, therefore it must be right.” This happened with Roe vs. Wade: “Abortion is legal, therefore it must be right.” 50+ million babies in the U.S. died by the hand of abortionists since that court decision in 1973.
I am called to put my trust in the One who created the institution of marriage and who, therefore, defines it. It is not for me — or anyone else — to tamper with what God has made. Government, another institution created by God, is called upon to maintain the standard of what constitutes marriage. Failing to do this results in societal chaos and great harm to children — the very ones marriage is designed to protect.
I was among those who voted not to retain three Iowa supreme court justices. This wasn’t because I don’t consider all people — no matter their color, ethnicity, religion, or lifestyle choice — to be equally human under God. Rather, it was my civic duty to say “no” to anyone’s “right” to redefine marriage, to remind judges that the law they make has a teaching function, and to act as someone accountable to the most Supreme Judge.
(SOURCE: Politics According to the Bible
by Wayne Grudem, Zondervan, pp 229-230)
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Life issues, Parenting & Education, Relationships, tagged " homosexuality, abortion, abuse, birth control, breast cancer, child predators, family, government funding, hope and change, morning after pill, parental notification, parents, Planned Parenthood, promiscuity, safe sex, tax dollars, teens, women's health on April 13, 2011| Leave a Comment »
My personal “tour guide” at Planned Parenthood was friendly. I did not doubt that she genuinely believed she was part of an organization that wanted to help women. However, two-thirds of the “tour” was was spent explaining where the client has her abortion and how long it takes her to recover before leaving by way of the side door.
So, Planned Parenthood: “Fess up! You benefit from multiple private donors, yet you fight tooth and nail for my tax dollars. Why is it so important that government fund and, thereby, endorse you?
My “tour” of Planned Parenthood was many years ago. It — and countless conversations with women who left your clinics by the side door — influenced me to warn mothers and daughters away from your place of business. I have read your brochures, become familiar with your recommended textbooks and classroom topics, studied your reports, and visited your web site for teens. You do not view men, women, relationships, marriage, or family as God does.
So, come clean Planned Parenthood and “fess up!
If you’re all about women’s health care, why do you:
“Fess up, Planned Parenthood! If you’re all about women’s health care, why don’t you:
Planned Parenthood, one of your own clinic directors has been quoted, saying, “If Planned Parenthood had no abortion, it would see its soul unravel.” (Thomas Webber, former director of PP of Minnesota/South Dakota, The (St. Paul) Pioneer Press, July 27, 2000).
SOURCES: Teenwire.com, Planned Parenthood, Childpredators.com, Pro-Life Action Ministries, STOPP International, Life Dynamics, The Eliott Institute, Silent No More, Word of Hope, The Lighthouse, Ramah International, Lutherans For Life, and Concerned Women for America, Dr. Joe McIlhaney, Dr. Miriam Grossman, and Dr. Meg Meeker — for starters!
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, tagged children, classroom, Day of Silence, deception, GLSEN, mentoring, parental rights, parents, school, sexuality, teachable moment on April 8, 2011| 1 Comment »
The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) is sponsoring “Day of Silence” this April 15 in some public schools across the country. To where… and what… does this group want to lead our children?
Some call this a “hijacking of the classroom.” Others label it “political propaganda.” Take note of the name of this organization. How deceitfully it shapes impressionable minds to believe that any and all sexual preferences are “normal.” The question hangs heavy: “Will there be a ‘Day of Silence’ for Biblical manhood and womanhood? For traditional marriage? For “equal, but different”? For abstaining ’til marriage?
What is the destination determined for our children by GLSEN?
There is only one voice I know of that tempts and stirs up doubt. It is the voice that asks, “Did God really say . . . ?” That voice is hissing in the ears of our children today. Did God really say He created humans: male and female? Did God really say He made male to fit with female within the faithfulness of marriage? Did God really say behaviors can bring blessings or curses?
Is this event being planned for your school? (The national date in 2011 is April 15, but some schools observe Day of Silence on a different date.) Learn more by visiting Day of Silence Walkout.
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Commentaries of others, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged children, dialogue, faith, family, forgiveness, hope, hope and change, Jesus Christ, marriage, morality, opposing worldviews, science, truth, worldviews on April 6, 2011| 1 Comment »
“Not a Scientist” has offered ezerwoman the opportunity to hear from someone of a contrasting worldview. I don’t know “Not a Scientist,” but I am grateful that he’s interested in dialogue. This society needs more of that.
Twice, “Not a Scientist” has commented on my post, “Questions to Help Us Think (4-4-11). My pastor and son have also joined in the discussion. This is a good thing. That’s part of the reason why I’ve put myself out here — in blog world. Some say, “Linda! You’re a target.” There is no fear in that. Not if I’m a target for well-thought out words that may — or may not — agree with my worldview. We should be doing more talking. Explaining. Researching. Challenging. We should practice building our lives upon what we think and know to be true rather than upon fickle feelings and emotions.
To “Not a Scientist” I offer the following:
You and I see the world through very different glasses. Our worldviews boldly contrast.
You have fanciful ideas, Mr. “Not a Scientist.” But, they are dangerous. When I expressed concern for the two young men now “joined” in “marriage,” I did so because I am positive they have souls. Souls that will live forever — with God or not. I am positive because God’s Word tells me so. If I’m wrong, there is no loss. If I’m right, and those created and precious souls are separated from God because of sinful choices, then there is huge loss. Soulful loss.
Fanciful ideas, like free-falling without a parachute, are exciting — for awhile.
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Citizenship, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Relationships, tagged children, civil unions, family, Jesus Christ, neighbors, same-sex marriage, society, teachable moment on April 4, 2011| 6 Comments »
Two days have passed since my hometown newspaper ran a page one story of a young man’s “marriage” to another young man. If the headline, “Mr. & Mr,” didn’t capture people’s attention, the photos of the men kissing and signing their “marriage” license did.
Today, several members of my congregation made a request and a promise. If I would write a letter-to-the-editor, they would gladly sign it. As members of our community, we agree that every home, classroom and newspaper mentors children and encourages them in one direction… or another. As Christians, we agree that we are compelled on behalf of our neighbors (young or old) and for the benefit of society to speak whatever the Word of God speaks.
Pondering appropriate words, I’m aware that some of my neighbors will claim that it’s the personal right of those men to marry (especially in light of Iowa’s same sex “marriage” law) and that everyone should just leave them alone. But…
My hometown newspaper chose to highlight the “marriage” of two young men, ages 19 and 21. What was the message of the lead-in paragraph: “There wasn’t any music. No flowers or photographer. But something else was there Wednesday that’s present at most weddings — the look in the couple’s eyes.” Why was the reporter at the “wedding”? Obviously, photos were taken, but for what purpose?
I am concerned for these two young men. I am concerned about their spiritual welfare. Are they (like so many young people today) confused about their “sexuality?” Were they enticed by momentary feelings, flattered by attention, or empowered by a trendy social experiment? Did the newspaper paint a bulls-eye on these young men? If either of the young men experience emotional stress or depression, will the newspaper and community offer themselves as care-givers? What happens if these men want to be fathers?
What lesson… what value… what hope for the future of families and children is being taught when behavior is celebrated that flies in the face of the Creator of man, woman, and marriage?
Jesus said,
Temptations to sin are sure to come, but woe to the one through whom they come! It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were cast into the sea than that he should cause one of these little ones to sin” (Luke 17:1-2).
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Life issues, Relationships, tagged family, in-your-face, marriage, mentoring, politically correct, society on April 4, 2011| Leave a Comment »
The front page headline of my local paper read, “Mr. and Mr.” Beneath the headline was a photograph of two newly-wed young men, holding hands and kissing. The story continued from page one to page three where a second photo was featured of the two men signing their marriage license. The “feature story” described how the couple met and why they decided to marry. Comments from family members and friends were included.
I wonder. The photos from my son’s and daughter-in-law’s weddings were relegated to the “wedding section” of the paper. No reporters were on hand to ask how my sons and their wives met or why they decided to marry. No comments from family members and friends were included.
I wonder what my hometown newspaper is trying to tell me… or my grandchildren… .
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged abortion healing, caregiving, feminism, hope, Jesus Christ, motherhood, names, Word of Hope on March 31, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Abortion does not think about the future. Seventy six million baby boomers could soon realize that the lives might become a burden because 53 million people who would have supported an aging population were aborted. That’s an economic nightmare.
But, there’s a more personal side to this nightmare. Each one of the 53 million boys and girls who have been aborted in the U.S. alone since 1973 had a name (Isaiah 43:1-2).
I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are Mine,” says the Creator and Lord God
Abortion drops a name placed upon a unique and treasured person. It is a name known by God before all eternity for all eternity. It is a name of a boy or girl who would have impacted this world in ways we’ll never know.
Abortion drops a name from a teacher’s grade book. From 4-H club or Boys Scouts or junior olympics. From schools of music, agriculture, or medicine. From the consumer index and first-time home ownership. For the tax rolls. From bonds of marriage, parenthood, and genealogies.
Abortion drops a name from baptism, confirmation, and the mission field.
There is an emptiness when a name is dropped by abortion. Women we know who have suffered the loss of an aborted child would explain this if only we’d listen. That’s because a mother knows that a child created and named by God can never be replaced.
God named each on of this nation’s 53 million aborted children. For each one He had a future and hope. Even though each would have been born into sin, God had for them a robe of righteousness because of what Jesus did on a Cross for them. Our world is less because these children are not with us. Our world suffers when people created for a purpose and called by name are considered “untimely,” “inconvenient,” or “fearful.”
But, God has also named every mother who feared her child; who failed to see her child’s future and hope; who, deceived by other voices, doubted that God is good and can be trusted in every circumstance. He calls each empty mother by name: “My daughter in Christ! Life your countenance toward Me!” He waits with open arms for each mother with a broken and repentant heart. “Turn to Me . . . acknowledge your sin . . . and I will forgive your guilt” (Psalm 32:3-5). “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; thought they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool” (Isaiah 1:18). “Woman . . . neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more” (John 8:11).
A woman who faces the reality of her abortion is in need of someone else whom God has named. That person is you. It is me. We are “friends.” “Comforters.” “Encouragers” on the journey from the dark valley toward “goodness and mercy” (Psalm 23).
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Parenting & Education, Relationships, Sexy or holy?, tagged " homosexuality, Alfred Kinsey, Charles Darwin, church, creation, evolution, family, hope, Jesus Christ, Margaret Sanger, Planned Parenthood, sex education on March 23, 2011| 3 Comments »
Sexual gratification rules. Sex — any type, any time, with anyone — is the ultimate freedom. Sex rules the marketplace, classroom, court of law, and military. Sex is the one “right” above all others. Why? Because Kinsey said so. “Children,” said Kinsey, “are sexual from birth.” In other words, according to Kinsey and his followers, we are animal-like beings captive to sexual desires, urges, and feelings.
Progressive people everywhere already knew they were “animal-like.” Why? Because Darwin said so. Anyone feeling inhibited by a Creator God now had “license” to do as they pleased. Piggy-backing (how animal-like!) on the theory of Darwin, Kinsey plunged into “scientific” study with the goal of breaking down all sexual inhibitions Kinsey’s “scientific” study has been exposed as fraudulent and criminal. (You can discover why by reading “Kinsey: Crimes and Consequences” or visiting Dr. Judith Reisman.) Nevertheless, a psychologically twisted and sexually deviant Kinsey was granted “license” to move a culture away from guarding innocence and protecting boundaries of modesty to educate in all manner of sex. The animal circus went on the road.
Progressive and enlightened Christians filed God’s Word on sexual purity under “religious myths” and joined the animal circus. Willingly, or unwillingly, they became “animal trainers.” If you really cared about a child, parents and educators were told, you would help a young, “evolving” conscience become “comfortable” with sexual desires, urges, and feelings. At least four generations have been educated in all manner of sexual behavior, but left clueless about what it means to be male or female.
We’ve been too long at the animal circus. The evidence explains why.
We’ve been too long at the animal circus. Darwin, Kinsey, Margaret Sanger (Planned Parenthood), and others who’ve wanted to re-wire the minds of our children have trained long enough. Their education has mentored boys and girls to be sexual, not relational; all about me, rarely about others; empty, not filled; hopeless, not hopeful.
The church — the Body of Christ — stands guilty. To be more attractive to the world, we adapted the ways of circus trainers. As long as Jesus was part of sex education, our sons and daughters would be all right — or so we thought. But, Jesus does not wrap Himself around worldly ideas. (See post of October 1, 2010 in the ezerwoman archives.)
Is there hope? Yes. Away from the animal circus.
God didn’t create us to be “sexual beings.” That is not our identity. He created us to be human beings who reflect His glory by living life as male or female. According to His design, male and female are equal, but different. Our “plumbing” is different. The way we think, love, and communicate is different. God’s Word explains the meaning and purpose of the two genders/sexes. His Word explains why we need each other and how to treat each other. Then, when the time is right, God “fits” a man and a woman together in the faithfulness of marriage. Through the act of procreational sex, God brings new life into the world.
We are not animal-like beings captive to sexual desires, feelings, and perceived “needs.” We are, by creation, persons of great worth with minds, hearts, and souls able to control emotions and feelings.
Away from the animal circus, we are better able to see children as God sees them. Sons and daughters… on their way to a future of hope as men and women. Husbands and wives. Fathers and mothers. Grandparents.
Evidence for “Not a Scientist”
Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Commentaries of others, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged " homosexuality, family, God's Word, health, hope, marriage, marriage benefits, relationships, same-sex marriage, society on April 6, 2011| 4 Comments »
Jeffrey Satinover, a psychiatrist who is a graduate of MIT, Harvard, and the University of Texas and has lectured at both Yale and harvard, reports some of the medical harm that is typically associated with male homosexual practice:
Satinover also points out a significant contrast in the sexual behaviors of heterosexual and homosexual persons. Among heterosexuals, sexual faithfulness was relatively high: “90 percent of heterosexual women and more than 75 percent of heterosexual men have never engaged in extramarital sex.” But among homosexual men the picture is far different:
Society should encourage and reward marriage between one man and one woman. All societies need babies to survive, and Biblical marriage is the best environment for having babies. Societies should encourage an institution that provides this best kind of environment for raising children. A married man and woman raise and nurture children far better than any other human relationship or institution. The benefits that husband and wife (father and mother) bring to their children are numerous. Children who live with their own two traditionally-married parents:
Children who live with their own two traditionally-married parents are more likely to establish stable families in the next generation. Traditional marriage:
God created marriage between one man and one woman. We cannot change the “fit” and still call it marriage. Now, it is something else. Marriage is the building block of any stable society. Any society that wants to remain healthy and stable must have governments that encourage, protect, and reward marriage between one man and one woman. In turn, marriage and family give back to society in immeasureable ways.
There are countless resources for the curious. I value the following:
Joseph Nicolosi, President of the National Association for the Research and Treatment of Homosexuality
Exodus International, a ministry for those leaving the muck and mire of homosexuality and starting new lives
Stand to Reason, apologetics for both Christian and non-Christian
The Family Research Council (click on: “Marriage and Human Sexuality”)
Focus on the Family
Unwanted Harvest by Mona Riley and Brad Sargent
A Strong Delusion: Confronting the”Gay Christian” Movement by Joe Dallas
The Homosexual Agenda: Exposing the Principal Threat to Religious Freedom Today by Alan Sears and Craig Osten
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