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LGBT: Coming to a School Near You

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Citizenship, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Parenting & Education, tagged " homosexuality, bisexual, CDC, education, ex-gay, Exodus International, GLSEN, government, health, lesbian, men, parental rights, parenting, parents, recovering homosexual, schools, students, tax dollars, taxpayers, teachers, transgender, women on June 24, 2011| 1 Comment »

GLSEN (the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network) has been awarded an annually renewable grant from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). This will allow GLSEN to “partner with 20 targeted school districts across the country” and to reach “14,500 school personnel and 4 million students.”

So, at taxpayer expense, homosexual activism may be coming to a school near me… or you.

How will GLSEN use the grant money (up to $285,000 per year)? It plans to start “internal Implementation Teams” and training programs based on their Safe Space Kit. Here’s a “quick review” offered by Candi Cushman (CitizenLink 6-23-11). The Kit:

Promotes GLSEN’s controversial book list for schools
Encourages teachers to display homosexual-themed materials from “LGBT organizations” (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender).
Recommends that schools “celebrate LGBT events” and incorporate lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender themes into curriculum and school literature. “Whenever possible,” the guide tells educators to give examples of “same-sex couples” and “LBGT parents.”
Gives teachers an “LGBT-Inclusive School Checklist” to see if their school has a “gender-neutral dress code” and “gender-neutral” bathrooms.

Cushman explains that GLSEN wants educators to avoid using words like “husband,” “wife,” or gender-specific pronouns in the classroom. The Kit includes a vocabulary sheet that includes “zie” rather than “he” or “she” and “hir” rather than “him” or “her.”

Is GLSEN’s goal to render meaningless the concept of “male?” “Female?” Traditional marriage? Basic English pronouns?

This doesn’t have to happen. GLSEN doesn’t have to prevail. Why? Because God says that children are entrusted to their parents. Parents have both the right and obligation to raise sons and daughters in a moral, healthy, and God-pleasing way. The homosexual lifestyle brings nothing good. Right. Or true. It is empty self-gratification. It brings confusion. Heartbreak. Disease. Hopelessness. Separation from God. A parent’s duty is to lead sons and daughters away from danger. And, if a son or daughter is tempted into harm’s way, a parent is to rescue. Love unconditionally. Patiently re-connect to God’s Word for male and female. Exodus International is one of several ministries helping parents do just that.

Parents, not the government, are to raise children. The government may express controversial opinions and even fund those opinions with taxpayer money. But, parents still have a voice. They must use that voice. Be a voice of reason. Unite voices. And, if their voice is not heard, they need to seek other school choices if possible.

Resources for parents are offered from Focus on the Family, The Family Research Council, The American Family Association, Vision Forum, and The Alliance Defense Fund.

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Not Gender Neutral

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Commentaries of others, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, tagged CBMW, culture, Dr. Randy Stinson, ESV, gender-neutral, God's Word, inspiration, Lutheran Study Bible, men, Scripture, Southern Baptist, women on June 24, 2011| Leave a Comment »

Words matter, especially the words God chooses to speak to us.

So, I am thankful that the largest evangelical denomination in the nation — the Southern Baptist Convention — voted recently not to commend the 2011 New International Version (NIV) Bible because of its gender-neutral language. Why? Because it alters the intended theological message.

For a long time, I have been appreciative of the work of The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW). It has helped point me to a proper understanding of the uniqueness of male and female. My respect for both only grows. I hope I am passing on this respect through Titus 2 Retreats. Dr. Randy Stinson is the president of CBMW. He is also the dean of the School of Church Ministries at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He notes that Southern Baptists and other Christians “affirm what we call the ‘verbal, plenary inspiration’ of Scripture which means that we believe not just the broad thoughts of Scripture are inspired by God, but every word. And so every word, when it is translated from Greek, Hebrew, or Aramaic, matters.”

Yes! Amen! Let it be so!

I, too, embrace a word-for-word translation philosophy. And, to better help me understand the meaning of God’s carefully chosen words, I am also thankful for the Lutheran Study Bible (English Standard Version).

God really did say. And He used specific words to say it!

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Helping Man Remember

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged abuse, beauty, behavior, children, choices, deception, doubt, foolishness, Genesis, God's Word, guilt, hope, husband, ignorance, Jesus Christ, kindness, man, marriage, patience, promise, respect, society, temptation, truth, wife, woman on June 24, 2011| 1 Comment »

The word “male” (Genesis 1:27), from the Hebrew word zakar, could be translated: “the remembering one. Isn’t this a strange description for the male? What is it that God wants man to remember?

God’s wants man to remember His Story (history). His instructions for life. His warnings away from death. Just as Adam passed on God’s Word to Eve, so is man to pass on God’s Word to his family today — sons, daughters, grandsons, and granddaughters. Whoa. Stop. Adam passed on God’s Word to Eve?

Based on Genesis 1:27, I used to assume that God made man and woman at the same time. That God instructed them both not to eat of the one tree. That in choosing to do so, they would know good and evil… and die. I was ignorant of God’s Word. I was guilty of reading one passage, but not another. God uses the first part of Genesis, chapter 2, to give more detail on His creation. God didn’t create man and woman at the same time — or in the same way or for the same purpose. Eve had not yet come to be when God gave the man His instructions for life and warnings against death. She learned of God’s Word from man. And, in God’s order of things, she would be privileged to help him remember it. Trust it. Use it.

One day, Satan slithered right past the man to deceive the woman. The twister of Truth knew that Adam was entrusted with the responsibility of remembering God’s Word so he flattered the woman. Put her in the role of leader. Perhaps intoxicated by this attention, she disobeyed God and doubted His Word. In doubt, she was foolishly emboldened to not only speak for God but add her own words as if they were His. Eve’s words should have been to her husband. She should have beseeched him to remember God’s Word and use it to engage the enemy. Instead, she chose to tempt man to also eat of forbidden fruit. Adam could have resisted. Turned Satan on his tail. But, failing to remember God’s Word and use it, the man was ill-equipped to cover his wife. Lead away from danger. God held man responsible because he failed to remember. To act. To engage the liar with Truth. To bring order out of chaos.

It all could have ended there. But, God’s love for His creation endures forever. He promised that another Man would come. The Man who would remember the Word and use it to cover every sinful man, woman, and child. That Man is the Word. The Word sent from the Father to be the Savior from sin. In Jesus Christ, man has new opportunity to remember the Word and use it. And woman remains privileged to help man remember.

How does she do this?

The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tear it down (Proverbs 12:1).

She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life . . . she opens her mouth with wisdom and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue . . . the woman who fears the Lord is to be praised (Proverbs 31). (Note: She deserves to be praised not because she is so amazing, but because she is not deceived by the world.*)

She is reverent in behavior, not a slanderer or slave to much wine. She teaches what is good, and so trains the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands [as to God], that the word of God may not be reviled (Titus 2:3-5).

Even if her husband doesn’t obey the Word, she may win him by her behavior when he sees her respectful and pure conduct . . . when she lets her adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious . . . likewise, her husband lives with her in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since she is an heir with him of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:1-7). (No offense here! God expresses care, not disrespect, for women because physically, women are typically smaller in size and weaker in strength which could make them vulnerable to abuse. Husbands are not to exploit their size and strength in unkind ways.*)

A husband needs a wife who will patiently help him remember God’s Word. Use it and pass it on. On this earth, there is no more powerful union — for the benefit of children. Society. A future of hope.

*With appreciation for commentaries
from The Lutheran Study Bible

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Part II: Circle of Love & Respect

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged created order, encouragement, equality, family, Genesis, home, humility, husband, Jesus Christ, man, marriage, patience, selflessness, service to others, teamwork, wife, woman on June 24, 2011| Leave a Comment »

The question is: “Who steps first into the circle of love and respect: The husband or wife?”

It helps to remember who created that “circle.”

God did. And, true to His design, there is order. God created human beings in His image, but He did not make them to be the same. They are equal, but different. God did not create woman at the same time as man, in the same way, or for the same purpose. In fact, God revealed to man that he was incomplete. “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him” (Genesis 2:18). “Fit for him” literally means: “Like his opposite.” (Think of this! Anatomically. Hormonally. Psychologically.)

Is it significant that woman was made for man? To complete him? Be his helper? Yes. The created order shows that man was to be the steward over all and she would help, assist, encourage, comfort, and be his advocate. (The word “helper,” by the way, is not dissimilar to the word used by Jesus to describe the Holy Spirit [John 14:16,26). In her privileged role, she is free to help without any initiative on his part. She doesn’t wait for him to ask before she offers encouragement, comfort, or good counsel.

God’s created order is a reflection of Himself. He is one God, yet three persons. Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are equal, but with different functions. There is headship in this orderly structure… and there is submission. The same is true with male and female. Even after sin spoiled God’s perfect design, the order of creation remained in place for our benefit. Sin broke man and woman’s relationship with each other and with God. But, in mercy, God used the submission of the Son, Jesus Christ, to save His Bride, the Church, and serve with humility. A woman might resent the created order. A man might abuse it. But, whenever it is honored, it continues to serve family and society well.

Doesn’t the created order beg the question from a leadership perspective? Shouldn’t the man be the first to step into the Ephesians circle? No, not necessarily. Even if he is stepping out front to fight wolves at the door, she is fully engaged as his ally and encourager. In God’s design, the man is responsible for bringing order out of chaos, but she helps that happen. Regardless of their different functions, both husband and wife can practice loving and respecting at all times.

There is no measuring stick. No fairness meter. In a godly home, neither husband nor wife keep track of what the other does or doesn’t do. Both have the same goal: To do all they do to God’s glory. And, when they fail, they apologize and forgive. Both take their sin baggage to the cross — and leave it there.

Visits to the Cross happen all the time even in the best of marriages. Let me approach this from a woman’s perspective. Helping is what I naturally do. But, flawed by sin, this becomes difficult. My husband might not think he needs help. Might not invite help. Might resent help. Might interpret my help to mean he needs “fixing.” So, how do I enter the “circle of love and respect” at such a time? Hopefully, I haven’t disengaged from the “circle.” Hopefully, I am faithful in offering encouragement. If I need to help, but he’s too prideful to accept it, I need to take care. Be sensitive. I may need to move slowly. Mary told Joseph that she had been visited by an angel with news of her pregnancy, but Joseph was of the mind to quietly divorce her. In their “circle of love and respect,” Mary understood that it wasn’t up to her to convince Joseph. She needed to wait on God. In His time, God helped Joseph get his arms around the situation. A woman is helping — in one way or the other — all the time. She may be helping to good… or bad. To build up… or tear down. To encourage… or discourage. To trust God’s plan… or shape her own.

Ultimately, two are better than one. One may fall, the other lifts up. One may be overwhelmed, a team of two stands firm. One alone is cold, two together stay warm. One might fall out of the “circle” momentarily, the other welcomes him/her back in. Woven with God, both are able to engage in the “circle” freely and unconditionally.

The pure circle of love and respect is tainted on this earth. We too easily think of ourselves first. How we’re not being served… or how we’re doing all the serving. But, challenged to “shine like lights” and “hold fast to the word of life,” we do what we do for Christ — even if it means being “poured out as a drink offering upon the sacrificial offering of our faith” (Philippians 2:14-17). Faith produces a sacrificial attitude for husbands and wives that frees us up to think less about self and more about other.

With this attitude, one might even forget who started, paused, stopped, or re-started the circle to go ’round.

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Who Takes First Step: Husband or Wife?

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Identity, Relationships, tagged Christ-like love, circle of love, created order, Ephesians, female, husband, Jesus Christ, love, male, man, marriage, partnership, respect, sacrificial love, teamwork, wife, woman on June 24, 2011| Leave a Comment »

The New Testament book of Ephesians, in chapter 5, speaks to husbands and wives. Someone recently told me that she understands God’s Word here to describe a “circle of love and respect.” The husband is to love his wife and the wife is to respect her husband. But, she wondered, who first steps into this “circle of love?” The husband or the wife?

Is it one or the other? No. It is both. Both, in response to God’s invitation, are responsible at all times: he to love, she to respect; he to lead, she to assist his leadership. Both are to see each other as their neighbor and faithfully serve that neighbor in the way that glorifies God. One does not wait for the other to serve. To love or respect. To do something thoughtful or kind. This might promote negative responses: “Because he doesn’t lead like I want him to, I can’t help him,” or, “Because she doesn’t respect me like I think she should, I can’t love her.”

Does the question, “Who steps first into the circle of love and respect” hint of fairness? Who defines “fair?” Who measures “fair?” Behavior based on fairness also tends to slip negatively. She could say, “Well, he didn’t do that, so I won’t do this.” He could say, “Well, she didn’t do that, so I won’t do this.” That isn’t how it works with God’s agape love. We aren’t to be patient only if the other one is patient, kind only if the other one is kind, or selfless only if the other one is selfless. Who should take the first step? In a working relationship, there is no “first.” Each is always trying to be patient, kind, and selfless. He is responsible for his behavior. She is responsible for hers.

It helps me to remember who created the “circle of love and respect.” (I’ll return to this in my next post.)

In God’s language, a husband’s love for his wife and a wife’s respect for her husband are unconditional. Not dependent on what the other does, or does not, do. A husband’s love for his wife is actually how he serves God. Should he wait to serve God until his wife respects him? A wife’s respect for her husband is actually how she serves God. Should she wait to serve God until her husband loves her?

To be sure, on occasion, one may feel like disengaging from the “circle of love and respect.” The perfect “circle” is, after all, tainted on this earth. We too easily think of ourselves first. How we’re not being served… or how we’re doing all the serving. But, with a growing faith in God’s Word for husbands and wives, we can practice doing what we do for the glory of God. We can develop better habits. God’s love in Jesus Christ was sacrificial. Faith in the power of that love produces a sacrificial attitude for husbands and wives. It frees us up to think less about self and more about the other.

With this attitude, one might even forget who started, paused, stopped, or re-started the circle to go ’round.

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No Safety in Sexual Experimentation

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Parenting & Education, tagged " homosexuality, bisexual, CDC, children, dad, ex-gay, Exodus International, gender diversity, harmful behavior, health risks, lesbian, medical facts, mentors, mom, parents, public school, recovering homosexual, risky behavior, sexual behavior, teachers on June 21, 2011| 1 Comment »

Early in June, the White House spent two days addressing LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) topics. The first-ever federal LGBT youth summit is one of Safe Schools Czar Kevin Jenning’s last acts before he leaves his position next month.

“How interesting,” notes Candi Cushman (CitizenLink, 6-7-11), “that the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) chose this particular moment to release an important study that tells us a lot about what’s really safe for youth — that is, if one looks at the objective facts, rather than view them through a political filter.”

The CDC reports that gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth are at a greater risk for unhealthy and unsafe behaviors. Students who identify themselves this way are significantly more likely than heterosexual students to engage in high-risk behaviors such as drug and alcohol use, actions that lead to violence, suicidal behavior, and sexual experimentation that can expose them to diseases. [1]

Focus on the Family, CitizenLink, and others have been pointing to such well-documented facts for some time. [2]

Why does the Obama administration seem to be ignoring those facts and, instead, recommending more homosexual advocacy for children in public schools? Does this have anything to do with the influence of Kevin Jennings? (Remember, he’s the one who founded GLSEN, one of the nation’s largest homosexual activist groups.) The CDC, for example, wants to help establish more gay straight alliance clubs in schools. Such alliances were founded by GLSEN. GLSEN encourages students to lobby for gender-diversity materials in schools and events such as a “queer-friendly prom.” [3]

Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius promoted GLSEN as a national model for schools, reports Cushman in CitizenLink. Sebelius said that “we know” the risky behaviors warned about in the study actually “are a result of the discrimination.” A CDC review of its own study cited “stigma, discrimination, family disapproval and social rejection.” Cushman notes a problem. “It’s a mystery how they [the CDC] reached those conclusions — because the study itself does not address or measure the causes of risky behavior.”

Children should be protected from harm. Parents are the ones entrusted by God to do that. Cushman also notes that “fact-based studies should not be allowed to be twisted into furthering a political agenda at the expense of our nation’s children.”

Parents need to be aware. They need to work closely with teachers who really want to teach students not one-sided messages from sexual advocacy groups, but math, science, English, and history. Parents who present factual medical and health information to teachers and administrators need to be heard and respected.

Parents need to be heard because they — not the school and not the government — are ultimately responsible for their sons and daughters.

[1] news release
[2] truetolerance.org
[3] to reduce health risks

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Parents & Gender Diversity Training

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Culture Shifts, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Parenting & Education, Relationships, tagged boys, children, Department of Education, diversity training, elementary schools, ex-gay, Exodus International, gender identity, Gender Spectrum, girls, men, parents, psychological trauma, recovering homosexuality, sexual indoctrination, teachers association, women on June 21, 2011| 1 Comment »

All students at Redwood Heights Elementary School in Oakland, CA., were recently instructed in a sexual indoctrination course. The training host and consultant was a Bay Area-based organization called Gender Spectrum.

In the lesson called “Gender Spectrum Diversity Training,” documents released by the school say that students were taught that “gender is not inherently nor solely connected to one’s physical anatomy.” Another document from the school advises parents that “when you discuss gender with your child, you may hear them . . . exploring where they . . . fit on the gender spectrum and why.” Gender Spectrum tells parents that children need to learn that sexual “variation is normal.”

Students in all grades were told there are different ways to be boys and different ways to be girls. Some of the reading list includes Boy, girl or both? and My Princess Boy (grades K-1), What is gender? and 10,000 Dresses (grades 2-3), and Three Dimensions of Gender (grades 4-5).

Gender Spectrum hosts training events and consultations aimed at questioning the role of gender in society. They encourage gender neutral restrooms in schools. The course program at Redwood Heights Elementary School was funded through a grant from the California Teachers Association.

The Pacific Justice Institute (PJI) asks: Should a child in kindergarten be introduced to the question of whether or not they really are a boy or a girl? Does this have a place in public schools? Are they engaging in an area that will, without question, result in children having problems that they likely would not have had otherwise?

According to PJI, there is no legal “right under California law for parents to opt out from this kind of pro-transgender indoctrination.” PJI is offering advice to parents who want help protecting their children from gender-diversity lessons.

In the Book of Beginnings, God’s Word explains that He created humans “male and female” (Genesis 1:27). No where after that — in Old or New Testament — does God say that He changed His mind or decided to experiment with and alter His creation.

Is what happened at Redwood Heights Elementary School acceptable by parents? What parents have requested that their child experience a “gender indoctrination” program? What is the origin and purpose of this kind of teaching?

In May 2009, President Obama appointed Kevin Jennings to the position of Safe Schools Czar with the U.S. Department of Education. Jennings is the founder of the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and wrote the introduction to the book Queering Elementary Education. Early in June, Jennings met with the White House to address LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) topics.

Jennings is leaving his post in July, but in what ways has he influenced the security of our education system?

(For details, visit OneNewsNow.com, Focus on the Family, or The Family Research Council)

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Homophobic?

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Life issues, Relationships, tagged " homosexuality, forgiveness, God's Word, Gospel, hope, Jesus Christ, moral choices, repentance, Rev. Albert Mohler, same-sex relationships, Scripture, sin, Southern Baptists on June 20, 2011| 1 Comment »

Rev. Albert Mohler told his fellow Southern Baptists at their recent conference that they’ve only been half right about homosexuality.

“We have said to people that homosexuality is just a choice. Well, it’s clear that it’s more than a choice,” he stated. “That doesn’t mean it’s any less sinful, but it does mean it’s not something that people can just turn on and turn off.”

Rev. Mohler, the president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary says his denomination needs to repent for a “form of homophobia” that has condemned homosexuals instead of embracing them as fellow sinners.

“We have also exhibited a certain form of homophobia of which we must, absolutely must in gospel terms, repent precisely because we believe in all the Scripture teaches about homosexuality, and all that the Scripture teaches about sin,” said Rev. Mohler.

He said the hard truth is, “Only the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ gives a homosexual person any hope of release from homosexuality. The Gospel is what we stand for — and the Gospel is the only remedy for sin.”

Thank you, Rev. Mohler and Southern Baptists for standing on firm ground. Some denominations claim there’s no need for release and that God can bless same-sex relationships. This is not the God who calls Himself “I Am.” “I Am” says, “I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore, choose life, that you and your offspring may live” (Deuteronomy 30:19-20). The Creator of life is not cruel. He does not make a person to be homosexual and then laugh when their behavior results in despair. Confusion. Illness.

We all struggle with sins and their consequences. May our neighbors urge us away from the cliff of sin even as they reach out to embrace us in Jesus Christ.

(Appreciation to OneNewsNow.com)

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Titanic Love

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, tagged abortion, children, chivalry, created order, death, deception, despair, family, father, forgiveness, God's Word, history, hope, Jesus Christ, leadership, life, man, mother, Planned Parenthood, sacrifice, satan, sin, Titanic, truth, woman on June 16, 2011| 1 Comment »

For centuries, the rule of the sea was “women and children first.” Survivors of the sinking ship, Titanic, remember men who gave their lives so that women and children might live. Whether Christian or not, these men were influenced by a teaching that had shaped their thinking and behavior. Their sacrifice modeled that of Jesus Christ (Ephesians 5:25).

In 1996, another ship sank off the coast of Indonesia. Men on board this ship saved themselves first. Women and children died that men might live. This is the inevitable consequence of forgetting or rejecting Jesus Christ.

Jesus did more than speak about humility and service. He demonstrated it (John 13:12-17). With His example, He established a pattern for men and women to follow. A hero of titanic proportions is a man who practices self-control for the sake of a woman. A husband who covers his wife with his name. A father who rescues his child from death.

Ninety-three percent of the abortions performed in the U.S. are for convenience. Studies show the top three reasons for abortion are:

“A baby at this time would interfere with work, school, or other responsibilities.”
“I cannot afford a baby.”
“I do not want to be a single parent,” or “I’m having problems” with husband or partner. (Source: The Alan Guttmacher Institute, 1/97, A. Torres and J.D. Forrest, “Why Do Women Have Abortions?,” Family Planning Perspectives, 1988)

When it appears the ship is sinking — and life hangs in the balance, God desires that men step forward. Engage deceit with Truth. Do battle for the honor of women and lives of children. Adam, the first man, failed. He was silent. Unwilling to engage. Lead away from death. His passivity left woman vulnerable. His rib exposed. A target. At risk. When he joined with her in sin, he forever changed the course of history. Children would pay the highest price.

Indeed, they do.

But, must they continue to pay with their lives?

No. God brought hope to Adam and Eve with a promise. The promise was kept when Jesus Christ sacrificed His life on the cross. Became the Savior of the world. Proclaimed victory over Satan. Gave men and women authority over lies and deceit. Jesus Christ removed all reasons for any parent to sacrifice the life of their child.

Today, men bring order out of chaos every time they remember and use God’s Word. Choose life over death. Involve themselves with the teaching and disciplining of children. Deny themselves for the mother of their child. Lead away from danger with a servant’s heart. Deposit sin baggage at the Cross of Christ. Forgive as they have been forgiven. Re-build.

This is titanic love.

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Father’s Day

Posted in Biblical manhood & womanhood, Citizenship, Faith & Practice, Identity, Life issues, Relationships, Vocation, tagged civilization, created order, creator, daddy, daughters, familiy, father's day, fathers, forgiveness, good vs. evil, hope, husbands, Jesus Christ, leadership, man, marriage, parenting, respect, self-control, servanthood, sons, temptation, trust, woman on June 16, 2011| 1 Comment »

I’m the mom of two sons. Aunt of twelve nephews. Grandmother of four grandsons. Men matter to me.

I’ve lived in the presence of faithful men. These men — my grandfathers, dad, husband, brother, brother-in-laws, friends — are all aware of their inadequacies. They know they frustrate. Disappoint. Fail. But, they also seek wisdom in God’s Word. They find strength in the humility and servanthood of Christ. Because of this, I trust these men with my life.

There are other men. Abusive, undisciplined, selfish men. Men who have never been taught God’s Word for their life or rejected it. These men have no concept of chivalry. Instead, they dominate. Worship self. Fall to evil rather than good. I could not trust them. The women in their lives don’t.

A Biblical man stands in contrast. The man who knows God as the Creator of male and female persons appreciates woman as his helper, not his possession. The man who knows that God came to walk among us recognizes Jesus’ high regard for women. A man familiar with the Word knows he was not made in the image of animals, but in the image of God. Though fallen from that perfect image, he has attributes and characteristics of his Maker. He is capable of thinking out his actions, weighing the consequences, and controlling his behavior for the benefit of family and society.

A godly man recognizes the leadership style of Christ. Jesus laid down His life for His bride, the Church (Eph. 5:25). He accepted responsibility. On earth, Jesus was tempted. The devil came to Him. Tried to play with His mind. Tease the flesh. Even quoted Scripture. The devil went away, then returned to tempt again. But, Jesus stood firm. The Christian man knows he, too, will be tempted. Over and over again. There is struggle in this world. Knowing the battle is for the souls of his children, a father holds tight the Sword of Truth. He wields its Law and Gospel with proper discernment. This is a man of hope.

The man who wants to make a positive difference helps reconnect earthly fatherhood with the heavenly model. The Heavenly Father is neither passive nor preoccupied. He does not abandon His creation, but is involved with and committed to His children. The Heavenly Father brings order out of chaos. Sees male and female as equals, but delights in their differences. Does not mentor girls in the same way as boys. Sets boundaries for the protection of those He loves. Explains the consequences of every choice — good or bad. Pursues the lost. Knows the desperate. Welcomes all to lay the burden of every sin at the foot of His Son’s Cross. Forgives. His mercy in Jesus Christ is new every morning.

So, on Father’s Day — and with appreciation for faithful men — I promise my help. My encouragement. My supporting role as a rib. Faithful men are needed by women. Wives. Sons. Daughters. Civilization itself.

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